Meet The Parents

挣扎了许久，终于都做好了思想准备要以男朋友的身份去面对她的父母。全能的主，恳请您祝福我吧，阿门。

Genesis

God saw me hungry so he created mì sủi cảo.

He saw me thirsty and he created Trà đá.

He saw me in the dark so he created light and he saw me alone so he created you.

Thank God I met you. 



Thanks For Loving Me

If I never met you, I wouldn't like you.

If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you.

If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you.

But I did, I do and I always will.

My Thoughts

You never thought I loved you and I guess you never thought I cared either! Actually, I was just too afraid to say it out loud!

Because I Love You

Gosh, I miss her like crazy!!!

Missing U

I miss you like the deserts miss the rain,
almost gone on a wilderness campaign.
I miss you like the trees the sun in winter,
Come back and be their electrostatic printer.

Bring back the days of laughter,
abandon whatsoever you quest after.
Make gone this total eclipse;
Blow the darkness with the rays from your lips.

Come back and once more let's meander,
be the mistress, my heart's commander.
Don't abandon your fleet to sink,
come to my rescue, save without a wink.

Erase the thoughts from that awful night;
make its thought be gone on a one-way flight.
Don't make it stay like an indelible ink,
but erase from the memory with an eye's blink.

Let a fresh start be at hand,
let the flowers blossom on this cultivated land.
Let your smile be the rays and love its fertilizer,
let your hand be the source for a neutralizer.

If only you could see past this eclipse,
look at the brighter future with a glimpse.
No procrastination, but hope,
and prayers just like the pope.

Then we will begin anew,
let love be the binding glue.
Let it flow its course and run,
and the future will tell in the long run.

Oh, how much I hate Saturday and Sunday!

Saturday and Sunday, days I’ve never liked. The days that pretends to be something it isn’t.

Ever since I can remember I have hated Saturdays and Sundays and the reasons have never changed. When I was a child at school I hated them and now that I am an adult at work, I feel just the same.

These days is famously known as the ‘days of rest’ a chance for the man of the family to finish with work for 24 hours and spend the day with family. During those times, Saturdays and Sundays would have been longed for, savored and for most people, enjoyed.

However, luckily, life is quite different now. Most of us are lucky enough to have Saturday and Sunday off from working. This, however, has changed the way we feel about them.

Saturday and Sunday for me now represents a laborious countdown to Monday. There is nothing better than the feeling you get on a Friday afternoon when you can set aside of all of the difficult tasks and think ‘ah they can wait until Monday’. It’s a great feeling to have on Friday, when Monday seems like a lifetime away (much in the same way that New Year feels impossible in December). However, come them, all of those difficult tasks start to come to the fore, and like a nagging wife, they eat away at you all through Saturday and Sunday which ruins all chance of enjoyment.

Also, if you’re like me, you’ll also feel guilty about the fact that you are not doing any work. It must be something ingrained in me from school. Saturday and Sunday was always ‘homework day’ or ‘homework putting off day’. That hasn’t changed for me. Technology has meant that I can access my work files and network at the click of a few buttons and I live in guilt on Saturday and Sunday that maybe I should be catching up on work. This coupled with the fact that these two rest days also ‘house cleaning day’ makes them 10 times worse than any Monday.

I truly believe that I shall always hate Saturdays and Sundays. For me the weekend is just Friday. Saturday and Sunday serves as days of mental torture. Saturday and Sunday, I believe, should be named the ‘days of sleep’. Close your eyes lie in a dark room and hope that you miss it!

Personal Feelings

We all wear masks, every one, every day. And sometimes we wear'em so much, we forget who we really are. And sometimes, if we're lucky, someone comes along and shows us who we really wanna be, who we should be!

Indochine - Hidden Purchase Power

The above photo are captured at an internationally renowned department store at Ha Noi during its Vietnamese Women’s’ day special discount (50% of for every hand bags and footwear item). Although most are not very well known brand, but still was swept away! This spectacle won’t see in any of this department store M’sia branch, even during the BonusLink members' day sale exclusive. From now on, who would dare say the Vietnamese poor?

淡边-我的家乡[My hometown-Tampin]

啊哈，俺也是在这里成长的！

有杀冇赔

有水便是溪，无水也是奚
去掉溪边水，加鸟便是鸡
得志猫儿胜过虎
落坡凤凰不如鸡

有木便是棋，无木也是其
去掉棋边木，加欠便是欺
龙游浅水遭虾戏
虎落平阳被犬欺

待有一日龙入海，定要翻江又倒海
若有一日虎归山，定要血染半边天
谁无虎落平原日，待我风云再起时，有朝一日龙得水，我让长江水倒流！

猪我生日快乐

什么人的生日会让人记得
什么人会记得他人的生日

有的人 独自一人渡过生日
有的人 与朋友狂欢一整夜
有的人 与家人吹蜡烛切蛋糕

家人会送上细致的蛋糕
朋友会送上精美的礼物
朋友传来贺词与祝福

然而
没人记得他生日的人
也能很开心的过生活

所以
生日不一定要有礼物
生日不一定要有贺词
生日不一定要有蛋糕

无论
热热闹闹的渡过生日
还是
孤孤单单的渡过生日
然而
生活里的挑战依然要面对

不想再做自己

上星期五出门上班时，往右边裤带一摸，却怎也找不到车匙，被堵在车外。我往房间和其他地方都翻遍了，但车匙就是不见踪影，忙了大半个小时，我从左边裤带掏出手机准备拨给司机求救时，却发现原来车匙就装在左边裤袋里。

这些年，我习惯了将钱包和车匙放在右边裤袋，我却不会往左边裤袋找，白白浪费时间。这是顽固的习惯所致的心理陷阱。

于是我学着改变某些习惯，把车匙改放到右后边的裤袋，把香菸换成较清淡的ESSE Menthol，把办公桌收拾收拾。然后，我减少了每天吹菸的频密次数。不再熬夜上网到凌晨，学会最迟11点左右就上床见周公。Facebook能免则免，少了它地球并不会因此而停止自转。

菸瘾改善了，不再是一天最少吹掉三大包。减少没事就找人煲电话粥的恶习，手机不再需要每晚都充电，改为每两到三天一次。为了健康也好、省钱都好，还有很多陋习都应该彻底改变。

习惯是可以改变的，只是以前我总是不愿意去改变现状，我宁可让别人认定自己就是这种懒人。我上同样的餐馆、吃同样的食物、只用Lux的沐浴露、只用Biotherm的skin care产品、只用Toshiba的laptop、只穿Ralph Lauren的polo shirt、只吹薄荷口味的菸等，其实这一切并不代表我真心喜欢这些东西，说到尾这全都只不过是一种习惯。

前女友曾说，认识我这么久，她知道我爱吃什么，知道我什么时候想要做些什么，可她从不知道我心里在想着什么，就如我从来不知道她的内心世界是寂寞的。

其实，没有人可以彻底去了解另一个人，人只能够知道另一个人的习惯，而不是了解他/她的内心世界。当我把跟了我三十几年的习惯都改变了，你就会发觉，你从来不曾认识这个人。

而我选择让自己变得不再是自己，是为了不再想念她。

无奈

力拔山兮

气盖世

时不利兮

骓不逝

骓不逝兮

可奈何

虞兮虞兮

奈若何

潇洒的背后往往隐藏着无奈！

认输并不代表屈服

认输不失为一种策略，它使人彻底的摆脱不健康的心理羁绊，让人在调整好位置后进入最佳的身心状况，它培养的心灵会有高度的集中力和冷静的判断力。

认输也是一种自我认识、一种积极的自我评估，在与敌人交锋时，认清敌人的优势，同时也评审了自身的能力与不足。在面对自身的能力与不足时，惟有学会认输，以最正面的心态去评审自身的缺点与不足，这样才能够更绝或改进它们。有错和不足并不恐怖，只要虚心学会认输尔后知道自省，就能够避免铸成大错以至抱憾终身；只要学会认输，就能及时调整步伐，去争夺“赢”的机会和满足。

认输不是自甘沉沦，它有积极进取的内涵，使人以退为进，博得潜心发展的自主权、扬长避短、篡夺胜利。如果硬认死理、逞强好胜、盲目蛮干、一味的硬撑，只会给本身带来不必要的损害甚至牺牲，最终只会输掉所有的本钱。只有做到审时度势、随机应变、刚柔并济、适时的让步以将损耗减到最低，才能确保还有东山再起的本钱。认输就是正视现实、实事求是，不抱任何偏看法、准确地分析自我和敌人。

在人生或商场的征途中，常有竞争和角逐，也有斗争与拼搏，着实需要百折不挠、矢志不移、永不言败……的精神。其实，在必要的时候，也得学会认输。试想下，在面对不利的现实，深知自身不敌对方，若还一味地跟敌人硬拼又有何益呢？两败俱伤绝对不是最好的结果，而且理解认输，避开锋芒、急流勇退，不进行无谓的竞争以减少不必要的“牺牲”，才是智者的风范。这种认输并不可耻，也不是自认失败，而是暂时性的稳固脚根；这种认输并不是放弃寻求，而只是退一步以空间换取时间来重新审视局面。这种认输能使本身的心灵更广阔，而且能让自身的心灵得以充足的休息调整，以在更好的时机出现时一击即中。

Happy 53rd Birthday to Bolehland

Who dares to say the Malaysian-Chinese are not patriotic?

同人唔同命，同遮唔同柄！

人比人，比死人！鬼叫我地穷咩，顶硬上啦朋友！

By the way, why did Dato’ Shamsul Azhar Abbas not on the list?

都是你

因为对你的思念、对你的等待、对你的执著......对你的承诺令我能够临危不乱，才不至于铸成无法回头的大错！这一切只因为都是你。

来不及

这首歌让我感触很深，特别是在车上一个人静静的听。第一次听这首歌时是在车上 不知道为何，它让眼泪决堤了！

祝福

希望曾經在我生命裡佔有我全部的她，能真的得到她所想要的幸福。